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• PHD: Ancestral Echoes - Clearing Family Patterns

  • When
    November 24, 2025
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    3:30 PM - 5:00 PM
  • Location
    Online via Video Conferencing

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  Ancestral Echoes - Clearing Family Patterns
    November 24th, 2025, at 3:30 pm Eastern

  
  

  In Ancestral Echoes Life Repatterning, we draw on Bert Hellinger’s family constellation work to gently illuminate how struggles for power in families are rarely about willpower or personality. They are often echoes—unseen loyalties and unfinished stories moving through generations. When we see the pattern, restore order, and include what was left out, the push and pull around power softens, and love can flow again.

  What is constellation work? It is a facilitated, embodied way of seeing a family or system as a living field. Using representatives (people or markers) to stand for family members, we allow the relational field to reveal itself—who belongs, who has been left out, where roles are tangled, and where love stopped flowing. Constellations are simple, serious, and surprisingly light; they don’t analyze so much as show. From seeing, something in us settles. From settling, new movements become possible.

  Why do power struggles repeat? According to Hellinger’s “Orders of Love,” families have a few basic principles:

  1.       Everyone who belongs has an equal right to belong.

  2.       there is an order of time and responsibility—those who came earlier have precedence; parents give, children receive.

  3.       Love moves best when giving and taking are balanced among equals.

  When these orders are disturbed—through exclusion (a forgotten ancestor, an ex-partner, a child who died), role reversals (a child caretaking a parent), or identification with someone who suffered—power gets used to compensate. A child might try to “stand above” a parent to protect them, or side with one parent against the other. These gestures are loving, but costly, and they tend to keep repeating until seen and resolved.

  How do the Orders of Love relate to “orders of power”? Power, in Hellinger’s sense, is not force; it is the quiet authority that emerges when the Orders of Love are respected. When belonging is intact, when elders and ancestors are honored, and when each person stands in their right place, authority rests where it naturally belongs. When the orders are violated, power gets grabbed, hidden, or resisted—showing up as conflict, control, or collapse.

  How do unresolved issues remain in the field? Families carry memory not just in stories, but in body, mood, and behavior. Unfinished grief, exclusions, and injustices can linger as “entanglements,” where a later member unconsciously carries the fate or stance of someone earlier. Many participants feel these dynamics in constellation work as sensations, emotions, or impulses that don’t quite feel personal—because they aren’t only personal. This is not about blame; it’s about belonging. When what was left out is included with respect, the field relaxes.

  What changes when the energy clears? Outcomes are often quietly coherent rather than dramatic:

  • Conflicts soften; arguments reduce in intensity and frequency.
  • Boundaries clarify without hardening; “no” becomes kinder and more reliable.
  • Roles untangle; parents can parent, children can be children, partners meet as equals.
  • Body and mood lighten; there is more breath, more room, more joy with less effort.
  • Decisions feel steadier; the need to control relaxes as trust in the natural order grows.

  A light, steady way to begin: take a moment, breathe, and inwardly face your family—parents behind you, their parents behind them. Sense the many who stand with you. You might say, “I see you. Thank you for my life. What was yours I now leave with you; what is mine I now carry.” Then turn gently toward your own life. This simple movement—belonging, order, balance—invites power to return to its rightful place.

  In essence, the struggle for power in family systems is a signal that love’s orders need attention. With a little courage, a little humility, and a willingness to include what was excluded, the pattern loosens. Serious work, yes—and also a relief. More love flows, and with it, more ease, more humor, and more joy.

  Personal Holographic Discoveries: Ancestral Echoes Repatterning Session

  Join us for the next PHD session—Personal Holographic Discoveries—where we bring the Ancestral Echoes repatterning into practice. We will work gently and clearly with your family field so power can return to its rightful place and love can move with less effort.

  In this Repatterning we will...

  • create or update your current life vision intention to include a meaningful family aspect
  • identify current issues that arise from unresolved family patterns
  • set clear intentions for what you want instead—aligned with belonging, order, and balanced exchange.

  This session is designed to help you...

  • clear invisible patterns inherited from previous generations
  • create movement toward healthier family relationships 
  • clean up old dynamics that quietly block your goals.

  Expect coherence over drama: steadier decisions, kinder boundaries, and a felt sense of support from the many who stand behind you.

  Ready to resonate with a better family dynamic?...

  Join me for the next PHD Repatterning
  November 24th 3:30 -4:30pm Eastern...
  

   

  With light and love

  Carolyn
  
  

  

  
  

  carolyn@lighttravels.com

  www.LightTravels.com 

  
  

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  Your registration includes the opportunity to:

  • Send in your information for the live session via zoom
  • Download the post-session custom notes
  • Video recording access and audio mp3 download.

  Registration Options Include:

  • Member and Non-Member Fees
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  • A combination of the event plus one:one Life Repatterning Coaching sessions with Carolyn Winter... to dive deeper into your circumstances

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